Manchester based male escort and professional dominant
How to Choose an Escort or Dominant
How do I choose an escort or dominant safely?
Because I want you to feel confident whoever you book, here's what I'd tell a friend to look for in an escort or dominant:
- > Verifiable, independent reviews on an established directory (not testimonials that only live on the provider's own site, or a page that you got to because of a paid marketing campaign).
- > Someone who is open about boundaries and sexual health.
- > Who has experience in the service you're seeking.
- > Who makes you feel under no pressure.
For what it's worth, I have more verified escort reviews than any other male service provider on AdultWork, the world's largest escort directory.
Tick those boxes and you're in safe hands. I'm confident I tick all of them. My reviews are public, and my whole approach is here on the site for you to judge.
Red flags
A few worth walking away from, whoever you're considering:
- > Brand new accounts. Everyone has to start somewhere, but if you're one of the first people to ever meet a new escort or dom/domme, it's very hard to establish a track record of experience, or that a person is genuine. Particularly with kink bookings, this can carry danger. And with brand new accounts that ask for deposits, red flags are entirely valid. I didn't start asking for deposits until I had over five years' worth of solid review history.
- > Reviews that only exist on the provider's own website, with no independent directory behind them. Watch, too, for a provider with lots of reviews on AdultWork whose feedback shows "Role: Offering Services". This means the person has paid someone else for the time spent together, and the review has been left for them as a client, not as an escort. There are many men on AW who have lots of client feedback and claim they are well-reviewed escorts, but the website luckily makes it easy to tell if they're being honest, so long as you know how to read the ratings page. There's nothing wrong with being a client, but I take a dim view of those who are misleading about the rating system. None of my feedback has ever come from me as the client, as I only sit on the provider side of the industry.
- > Anyone who won't answer a straight question about boundaries or sexual health.
- > Pressure to decide quickly, pay more than agreed, or skip a conversation.
- > Photos that appear to be of multiple different people.
- > Anyone who talks over your limits or doesn't ask you about them.
A good provider makes you feel calmer the more you talk to them, not more rushed. Trust that feeling, with me or with anyone.
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Testimonials
“Great sexy couple . Love are meets”
“Ladies — do yourselves a favour and book this man. That crazy hot sex in your favourite smut books you think is unrealistic? Turns out — totally realistic.”
“Amazing… as ever…”
“An 11/10 meet. Spartan a cool chill fit guy. Lucie is just perfect in every way. Polite petite and drop dead gorgeous. With just the right level of mischief.!”
“Fantastic meet which I will remember for a very long time”
“Another Amazing Session: I met with Spartan recently having met with him a few times before. He was very encouraging and supportive of me, pushing my limits a bit further. Although I like things on the milder side he is always very willing to engage and delivers and exceptional service. He has a natural dominance whilst having the ability to make you feel safe and comfortable at the same time. I'd recommend him to anybody who is interesting in exploring this side.”
“Amazing sexy couple, perfect meeting. Great communication - Defo recommend x”
“Great choice if you are looking for a safe space to explore :)”
“We had a fantastic night. We were quite specific in advance about the type of experience we wanted and this was followed perfectly. Highly recommend!”
“Met this wonderful couple last night, very sexy, looking forwards to seeing them again”
“Stunning looking, fantastic body and a thoroughly nice guy. He did what I had asked for and knew how to take it further to delight me. Will book again.”
“Amazing, hot, sexy, gorgeous couple - had a fantastic experience. 5*.”
“Another wonderful meeting with this amazing and very horny couple”
“Excellent meeting and will book Star on her own on my next trip. Very relaxed and natural meeting”
“Fantastic cuckold session. Made my wife cum over and over again. Highly recommend.”
“Handsome, Fit and Dominant: I met Spartan after being interested in a spanking/caning and WS session. I had a great time and he made me very welcome and pushed me to my limits which is what I wanted. I'll re-book very soon !”
“Top Escort Manchester UK: I met The Spartan in Manchester. Very friendly guy, good at conversation. Good looking, tall, handsome, gym fit body to die for and he will always go the extra mile. He is so good, he does what you want and satisfy you in all areas. I would recommend to book him all the time 24/7 through the year. Hope to see him again very soon. Please book him, you don't know what you're missing.”
“Absolutely lovely couple and very open minded. I had a fantastic time and they did absolutely everything they say the do on the profile. Thoroughly recommende.”
“Had a fun filled time with warm, welcoming, friendly sexy couple. Look forward to meeting again soon..star amazing sexy lady”
“Amazing, hot couple. Spent a great hour with them and can’t wait to do it again. See you soon x”
“Great guy, great time, knew what I wanted. Will see again.”
“S&S are two of the beautiful people. They create a magical, sensual, erotic world in which you are made to feel a welcome guest. Wonderful experience, loved it.”
“Really friendly guy, on time, and good communication. As a nervous first-timer he put me at ease — it was everything I wanted. I'll be less nervous next time!”
“Reliable, very friendly guy. Very happy with the meeting and my girlfriend was very relaxed with him. Recommended.”
“A very friendly couple who have great chemistry and share generously, always willing make your ideas into reality”
“Had a fantastic afternoon with this stallion. Extremely satisfied. Thank you Spartan, see you again soon.”
“10 out of 10.. what can I say more.. nice sexy made me feel at ease, were really happy to discuss and explore my likes”
“First Timer and Returned Not Once But Twice: Having had an interest in exploring CBT and bondage for a while, I eventually plucked up the courage to contact The Spartan last year. He was easy to talk to and put my at ease to open up and discuss what I was looking for. Which was good, as I had no experience and little knowledge of what could be available First session was arranged as an intro and definitely opened my eyes to what REALLY turns me on and getting in to that more sub heads-pace - was a great experience in a good environment that put me at ease. Lots of questions to check OK and also explore other things to try. Second session was more exploration in to electro and some other aspects and then today - after a long break - a great session focussing on all things CBT. A great guy, who makes you feel at ease but definitely under control! Will be booking in again in the future as lots to explore. Now, need to get on to my homework tasks!”
“Taking Things to the Next Level: I have been using the Spartan to satisfy my BDSM needs for over a year. After reading reviews on this site I booked a duo session with Mr Rottweiler. It was the best decision I have ever made. The two work well together and I had the best time ever. Can't wait to meet up with them again.”
“another fun afternoon with this attractive, considerate, accomodating, professional couple X”
“Great meet x”
“A lovely time with this delicious couple.”
“Friendly, easy going, hot guy.”
“An amazing session!”
“Wow Wow Wow: Had a duo with Spartan and Mr Rottweiler. Both look amazing in flesh. Had a fantastic time with both of them. I would highly recommend Spartan and his duo. I will most certainly be booking again. Thank you for making my birthday great! :)”
“I booked 3 hours with the Spartan and loved it from start to finish. He kept things interesting and knew how to push me. I particularly loved the e-stim play.”
“Another very naughty meeting with the always amazing Spartan and Star”
“Second Visit Even Better! Just over a month since my first visit I plucked up courage to visit the Spartan again - this time also with his girlfriend present and participating in the session. What a fun time I (and I think we) had. I'm already looking forward to my next visit when I can get time of from work. This guy is great - I 100% recommend him to anyone looking for a male Dom. His girlfriend is also quite good at administering the cane and in the use of other implements!”
“another amazing meeting with two sex gods/goddesses. If you like slim, toned and sexy, these people are for you”
“First MMF threesome for me, Spartan and Star put me very much at ease, a real horny experience!”