A Male Dominant in Manchester

I am a straight male dominant based in Manchester, and I have been running domination sessions since 2012. If you were searching for a dominatrix but what you actually want is a dominant man in charge, you are in the right place. I am the one holding the cane, and I session with submissives of every experience level.

A Male Dominant for Women and Couples

Plenty of the people I play with are women who want to be dominated by a safe, experienced and genuinely sadistic man, and couples exploring power play together for the first time. Whether you want a firm hand for an evening, a full domination session built around your own kinks, or a male master to kneel for, we shape it around exactly what you are into and where your limits sit. Nothing happens that we have not talked through first.

New to things?

A lot of people come to me with little or no experience but a genuine curiosity to explore kink. If you already know what you want, or what you don't want, great. I can focus directly on delivering what you're after.

If you have no idea yet, don't worry. For complete beginners, I'll usually take you through a semi-instructional walkthrough of various implements and play styles. You'll likely get a taster of corporal punishment, impact play, manhandling, oral servitude and electrostimulation, along with an optional explanation of why BDSM tools are used the way they are and the dangers of using implements incorrectly (such as the risk of triggering a cardiac episode through misuse of electrostim across the chest). The longer you book, the more we can explore. By the second session, you'll have a much clearer idea of what you're into.

For the More Experienced

If you know exactly what you're looking for, please be as descriptive as possible when making a booking. Please note that if a session is likely to be loud or require a lot of space (caning, bullwhip, ballbusting and so on), incalls won't be suitable. A hotel, your place or a dungeon would be better. The dungeon I usually work from is Manchester Chambers in Ashton, but I'm flexible on location.

Spanking in Manchester

Spanking is where a lot of people start, and it is a sensible place to start. By hand first, then paddles, straps and the tawse if you want it broader and louder, and canes if you want it to sting and to mark. Tell me on the form how hard you want it and whether marks are welcome, and if a bruise would be awkward at home or at the gym I will keep everything to areas your clothes cover.

Foot fetish and foot worship in Manchester

Foot worship is one of the most common things I am asked for. Bare feet, socks, trainers or boots, and if you would like them worn in beforehand, say so and they will be. It asks nothing sexual of you, and it goes well with trampling if you want my full body weight on you rather than just my feet in front of you.

Ballbusting and CBT (cock and ball torture)

Kicking, squeezing, hitting, stretching, twisting, electrics, nettles and chilli paste. We start where you are rather than where you would like to end up, and it stays at your limit. Ballbusting is the heavier end of it, and it is loud enough and needs enough room that an incall is not the place for it, so a dungeon, a hotel or your own place is better. It sits well alongside restraint and small penis humiliation. More on CBT in the directory →

Forced bi

An introduction to serving a man: oral servitude, manhandling and throat use. With me it stops there, because I do not have sex with male clients, so there is no anal on my side of it however far you want to be pushed. It is available to men and to couples, and it fits naturally with worship and with being talked down to while you do it. Forced bi in the directory →

Chastity

A cage for the length of a session, or a longer arrangement where you hand the key over and check in. Bring your own device if you already have one that fits you properly. It is male clients only, and it pairs naturally with edging, denial and humiliation.

Humiliation and degradation

Being talked down to, mocked and put in your place, either woven through a session or as the whole point of it. There is no constant porn-style shouting; you will simply be in no doubt who is in charge. Tell me what stings and what is off limits, and note that slurs and specific themes such as raceplay or homophobia stay off the table unless you ask for them by name, in which case I stay inside exactly what you have asked for. More on humiliation →

Sissy training and crossdressing

Help getting dressed and taken as far as you want it taken, from a light touch to the full works, with as much humiliation in it as you have asked for. Two honest limits. I do not own outfits or makeup, so bring whatever you particularly want to wear. And makeup is not my skillset: I will have a go, but if you want it done properly, book me as a duo and one of my partners will do it far better than I can. Male clients only.

Activity Directory and Ideas

If you're looking for some inspiration, check out the Ideas page in the links above, or the Activities Directory for a full list of what I do and don't offer.

Equipment

Everything listed below is available to use in sessions.

Corporal Punishment

• Baseball bat (steel)
• Belts
• Bullwhip (kangaroo leather, 6 foot)
• Crops
• Canes (wood, plastic, steel; juniors and seniors, 8-12mm)
• Flail (very dense leather flogger)
• Floggers (fabric, plastic, light leather, dense leather)
• Paddles (small/large, light/heavy)
• Rounders bat (wood)
• Straps (leather; genuine well-worn school straps from when corporal punishment was legal)
• Tawse (light and heavy)

Furniture and Heavy Gear

Now that I no longer host from home, incalls can't include my non-transportable furniture. However I can still bring:

• Face-sitting box (custom build with adjustable head-locking wheels inside)
• Fucking machine (F-Machine Pro 4, a solid, heavy-duty machine with adjustable thrusting depth)
• Handheld fucking machine (a custom build: a reciprocating saw modified to accept dildos rather than saw blades. Thrust depth is about an inch, but it tops out at 30 thrusts per second)
• Pillory (full-body steel spreader bar)

Other Kink

• Cable ties
• Collars (steel and leather)
• Gags
• Funnel hood mask (for watersports forced drinking)
• Masks (gas mask, leather mask, spandex blindfold mask)
• Mouth spreader
• Poppers (£5 per bottle)
• Shackles (steel)
• Ropes, cuffs and restraints
• Zip cord custom restraint (1 inch thick with handle)

Other Pain Implements

• Claw (finger knife)
• Electrics (Electrastim and TaZapper)
• Nipple clamps (light clips to industrial 4-inch clamps)
• Thai nipple sticks

Medical

• Latex gloves
• Wartenberg wheel

Vanilla Sex Toys

• Dildos of various sizes
• Anal plugs (steel, trillium locking, glass, silicone, plastic, electro)
• Anal beads (silicone)
• Anal hook
• Latex fisting gloves
• Massage oil
• Spreader bars / pillory
• Wand (powerful vibrator)
• We-Vibe (couples vibrator)

Masks

• Funnel hood mask
• Rubber pig mask (full face)
• Motorbike face mask
• Sensory deprivation mask

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I can also take requests for kit I don't own. If you want to try something not listed, let me know and I may be able to arrange it.

Want full dungeon facilities? A-frames, doggy cage, medical room, rubber room, sex swing, spanking bench, straightjacket, overhead winch and more? Ask me about a dungeon booking.

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Electro play

Electro play is a good example of where experience earns its keep. I use professional, safety-graded kit. There are three main types of electro device within kink:

• TENS: current-based boxes that integrate with dildos, Kegel balls, butt plugs, sticky pads, cock loops, clamps, urethra toys and more.
• Violet wand: a voltage- and frequency-based hand tool, mild but visually impressive.
• Prod: closest to a cattle prod in how it works, but with dramatically less power. It doesn't hurt, but it flashes and pops. Combined with a blindfold, it can be great for anxiety play. You may have seen them on kink.com.

Used properly, any of these is safe; used improperly, it can be unsafe. Current stays below the waist and never crosses the chest or passes near the heart, no exceptions, and I'll always ask about pacemakers or heart conditions first. Sensation ranges from a gentle buzz to genuinely intense, and I build it up slowly so you stay in control of how far it goes.

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Safety

With any bondage I follow the same rules. Safety shears capable of cutting rope, cable ties and my zip-cord restraint in seconds are always within arm's reach, so nothing you're put into can't be removed quickly if needed. I check circulation regularly; restraints should never numb your hands or feet, and you're never left restrained and alone. Steel shackles and locking gear are only ever used with the key or release to hand. If a position stops feeling right, we change it; endurance is never worth an injury.

It helps to tell me in advance about anything that affects how we play: heart conditions, a pacemaker, high or low blood pressure, epilepsy, pregnancy, recent surgery, joint or back problems, or any medication you take. None of it is a barrier to a great session; it simply lets me plan safely and pick the right intensity. One specific note: poppers should not be mixed with erectile-dysfunction medication such as sildenafil, and are not suitable for anyone with heart conditions or glaucoma, so if either applies to you, let me know and we'll leave them out. Anything you disclose is handled with the same discretion as the rest of your booking. A lot of what I do can leave temporary marks, so if a visible bruise would be awkward at home, work or the gym, just say, and I'll keep everything to areas covered by clothing. More on discretion →

Preparation

A little preparation makes for a far better session. Come rested, sober and well-hydrated. Eat something beforehand, and wear or bring whatever makes you feel the part. Be thorough in your booking form with how you'd like things to go, or that you'd like to lead. If you're booking anal play, please prep with a suppository and/or douche beforehand. A shower is also always available if you've not had a chance to take one, at the beginning of a session. This will apply to incalls, hotels, and dungeon bookings. Fresh towels will be provided.